Home-wrecker just isn't my style.
Yeah, the whole being extremely handsome to the point where it feels like I'm looking into the sun (winkwink JENSEN ACKLES), having a super sexy accent (winkwink JOSEPH MORGAN), or a uniform totally help, but in the long run I need a guy with a good personality. Make me laugh. Don't be passive or I'll walk all over you. Sing along to the radio with me. Share an interest or too, and don't treat what I'm passionate about like trivial crap.
I'm a nerd and I don't want to hide it. I want to let my freak-flag fly. I go to cons. I want to talk about cosplay, and trivia, and goddamn it if you interrupt me during my shows, you better be prepared to accept the consequences. Is it so wrong to want a man who understands that Mark Sheppard is bacon, and that I'm an Ackle-holic but Sam-curious?
I want someone who can talk nerdy to me. Blow my mind with stupid trivia. Debate me on which Doctor is the best. Tell me why Sherlock is the best show on the BBC. Help me plot ways to kidnap Moffat and beat him with Clara theories. Ask me to see Star Trek with you. Be willing to come to a con with me. In costume for bonus points. I am a loud and proud nerd, and if you ask me to be the Hermione to your Ron I am SOLD.
Today I am proud to update you that I have got a whole bunch of guys waving the flag with me. Adam, you may remember him from post #1 and I have a date on Saturday. He will be attending Philly Con, just for me and then we'll be going out to grab a burger and milkshakes. He may even be able to show me a plane up close and personal :)
Guy #2, who we'll call Brandon (B, Beta? I like my theme, get used to it!) asked me out for Friday! Since I'll be in Philadelphia on Friday, we rescheduled for next Friday. He asked me for the classic dinner and a movie. More details as they arise, but it's looking promising. He told me that he reads Star Trek novels. Huge relief, since honestly- I have too. Some of the classic novels were good!
Guy #3, Charlie is still just texting me but I have high hopes for him. He's employed as an engineer. He has a car, and in his spare time he volunteers with a program that teaches students robotics. *swoon*
Sadly I haven't had considerable contact with the match who mentioned cosplay to me, but according to the website meaning a decent person takes approximately three months. Too bad, he had the whole hot AND nerdy thing working for him. More about him later! I just wanted to update y'all before I roadtrip out tomorrow!
For now though, let's celebrate that there are 3 guys out there who think I'm hot enough to date, and 2 have told me I'm gorgeous.
<--totally not me right now XD